How a Sex Chair Can Enhance Your Sexual Life
Being in-tune with your sexuality is a wonderful experience. You get to enjoy maximum pleasure while having a bit of fun. If you’re ready to experiment a bit more in your sex life, then purchasing a sex chair can take everything to the next level. It’s a fun, playful way to engage with your partner, or even something you can enjoy on your own.
Oftentimes, sex isn’t actually as pleasurable as it could be. This is because everyone’s bodies are different, and sometimes you and your partner just don’t line up properly. If you find yourself using a lot of pillows to get the right angle, then a sex chair may be the better method. They are made to support you and are flexible enough for different positions.
Sometimes, you want to try a different sex position, but it just doesn’t seem possible on a regular bed. Sex chairs can help you with this. If you have a partner who wants to stand, then a sex swing allows you to sit at the right level. Furthermore, for those who like oral play, a proper sex chair can provide more comfort for anyone involved. And if you’re are two very different heights, then sex cushions can help a lot with angles.
As long as you and your partner are both interested, a sex chair can really take your sex life to whole new levels.
With wedges, you can make your positions more comfortable and enjoyable for both
Features to Consider When Choosing a Sex Chair
Purchasing a sex chair can take a bit of courage. They can seem a bit scary, but if you’re ready for a different experience, then they are completely worth it.
However, if you are new to the scene, knowing which sex chair to purchase can be too overwhelming. After all, within this category you can encounter not only chairs but swings and wedge pillows, too. Our list of features will help you understand the ins and outs of sex chairs so you can have the knowledge needed to find a product that will be perfect for your needs.
Type
Within the realm of sex chairs, there are many different types. To begin with, there are some sex chairs that are meant for solo use and some that are meant for partners to enjoy.
Solo sex chairs need momentum, either through an automatic setting or powered by yourself. Partner sex chairs, on the other hand, are more stationary because you and your partner will be able to move each other.
Once you determine whether you are looking for a solo or a partner sex chair, there are many different categories to consider.
Stand-alone sex chairs are the most popular. There are types for solo and couple play. In fact, we have three sex chairs on our list that fall into this category, although as you will see, they are all unique.
While the Cloud 9 F-Slider Ride-On Sex Chair could be used with a partner, its primary use is as a solo chair. It moves through body weight, so you can control it on your own, matching the rhythm to your own needs. There is a place for a dildo so you can have maximum pleasure while engaged with the chair.
Another stand-alone chair on our list is the DOMINIX Deluxe Faux Leather Sex Position Enhancer Chair. It is meant to be used with a partner in many different ways. There is a hole on the top layer to facilitate oral play, and there are also bondage straps for further ideas.
The final stand-alone sex chair on our list is the Fetish Fantasy the Incredible Sex Stool. This is perhaps the most basic chair, although it still works well. The elastic material on the top of the chair provides some bounce, and you can angle yourself to find the right position.
Another category of sex chairs is those that come in cushion forms. While many people already use pillows during sex, they are flimsy and don’t offer as much support as specially made sex cushions do.
The Esse Chaise is a chaise lounge chair with the set of removable cushions. You can use the pillows by themselves or place them in the chair to experiment with different positions. The nice feature of cushions is that they are made with durable, comfortable foam. They won’t slide around, and you can feel supported throughout the whole experience.
Materials used
Sex usually isn’t fun unless you are comfortable. To this end, the materials used on sex chairs need to be soft while also durable. A lot of sex chairs have a metal base, in order to be stable enough to support the weight of two people. However, steel is not comfortable to sit on, so it should be covered in a softer material.
For example, while the Master Series Queening Chair has a metal frame, the seat is a padded cushion with face/dildo hole. It restricts the movement yet makings the experience comfortable.
The DOMINIX Deluxe Faux Leather Sex Position Enhancer Chair is another nice option as it is covered in a soft, faux leather material. The same is with the Cloud 9 F-Slider Ride-On Sex Chair.
Most chairs are made of metal to support weight of two people if needed
Weight capacity
When it comes to sex chairs, safety can’t be overlooked. This is why weight capacity is extremely important. While most sex chairs can hold two people, if you or your partner are larger, then weight capacity is even more important. The last thing you want to worry about during sex is wondering if your sex chair will hold up or not.
The Bangin Bench EZ-Ride is a nice option as it has a weight capacity of 300 pounds.
Finally, if you are looking for the most stable sex chair, consider the Cloud 9 F-Slider Ride-On Sex Chair. It has a weight capacity of 400 pounds.
Dimensions and weight
Before you go out and purchase a sex chair, there’s an important element to consider. Where are you going to store it? While some people may be blessed with their very own playroom, or perhaps have plenty of room in their bedroom for a sex chair, most people need to face the reality that their living space is a bit limited. Furthermore, if you’re someone who would like to put their sex chair away when not in use, then thinking about storage space is even more important.
The reality is that most sex chairs take up a lot of room. If you don’t have storage space where you live, then this can greatly impact what you end up purchasing.
The largest sex chair on our list is actually the Esse Chaise. This chair measures 64 by 24 by 29 inches. You will definitely need storage space for this one.
The Cloud 9 F-Slider Ride-On Sex Chair and the DOMINIX Deluxe Faux Leather Sex Position Enhancer Chair are also quite large, and unfortunately, neither can be disassembled.
The Bangin Bench EZ-Ride is one of the better options for storage. While it is a chair when assembled, it is easy to take apart and stored under the bed or in the closet when not in use.
Some safety tips
Make sure you are comfortable: Trying out new sex toys, including sex chairs can be fun and adventurous. However, communication is key when engaging with your partner. Make sure you are ready to try something new. And if you’re not, it’s ok to stop.
Play around before sex: Like anything new, it can take some time getting used to sex chairs before really enjoying them. Some chairs need to be powered by your momentum, while others involve straps and harnesses. It’s ok to take a test-spin fully clothed first. In fact, it’s recommended to try out a sex chair before even engaging in sex. This way surprises are minimized when you get down to business.
Lube up: Some chairs include the use of toys such as dildos. Stay on the safe side and make sure you and your toys are properly lubricated. Water-based lube is best as it is easy to wash off and won’t cause skin irritations.
Check the weight limit: It’s ok to lie about your weight on most situations, but not when an object has to support you. Do some quick calculations to make sure the sex chair you are about to use can fully support yourself and your partner. If it can’t, it’s best not to risk it.
Find a sturdy surface: During sex, there can be a lot of momentum. Always place your sex chair on a non-slippery, even surface. Again, you might want to do a test-run, just to make sure there’s no sliding around.
Communication is key: This may be a running theme, but it bares repeating. Sex is only satisfying if both partners are able to consent and communicate. It’s ok to change your mind about a sex chair or to pause and try again later. Especially the first time it is used, check in with your partner to make sure they are not only physically comfortable but mentally as well.
