What is a “Fleshlight”?
Today, the term Fleshlight is now generally used synonymously with a masturbator for men. Fleshlight is, however, a brand. It’s an undisputed market leader that overshadows its competitors to the point that consumers go so far as to forget their existence. Playing on proximity with the word “flashlight”, the fleshlight models are all inserted in a torch-shaped case. Existing since 2005, the brand first specialized in masturbators offering sensations close to human intimacy. Then it developed by offering synthetic, transparent masturbators imitating extraterrestrials or compatible with iPad type tablets. Models intended for homosexuals were also invented and grouped under the FleshJack range. Among all these products, the most famous and appreciated Fleshlights are those molded on the sensitive parts of porn stars – the mouth, the vagina, and the anus.
Why choose Fleshlight?
Among the multitude of sex toys on the market, the fleshlight has serious advantages. If you are still hesitating or indecisive about whether or not to buy this masturbating anus for men, here is something to convince you:
- The fleshlight is a terrifically realistic sex toy.
- Fleshlight works with superstars in the porn industry. So they have products modeled after their intimate parts. Therefore, you’ll have the chance or near-realism of bedding your favorite TV star.
- Do you live with your parents or are in a dating or marital relationship in which sex toys and male masturbation are not welcome? Fleshlight toys have easy and discreet storage systems.
- The silicone brings very pleasant sensations to your sex. This makes it a sex toy with effects close to real sexual intercourse until orgasm. The fake asshole is tight as a small female pussy, and your penetration is enjoyable.
- The price of a fleshlight is reasonable. It is, therefore, accessible to all.
- An anal Fleshlight is an excellent first masturbator. It’s especially for virgins wanting to feel something close to what they will feel the first time.
- The uses are numerous: either you make the movements with your hand as for a real handjob. Or you make the movements with your pelvis as if you were taking on a girl. You can put your fleshlight on a bed, in height, or vary the sexual positions.
- It can be used everywhere for ever stronger experiences (masturbation in a store, cinema, public place, flight, etc.)
- You can use it to overcome loneliness. It’s suitable for those in long-distance relationships.
Uses of Fleshlight
For early ejaculators, the Fleshlight stamina training allows you to train to delay ejaculation. Fleshlights are primarily instruments of pleasure. Their main utility is, therefore, to replace the hand during masturbation sessions. With the feeling being close to that of real sexual intercourse, users can find incomparable pleasure with the classic masturbation sessions.
But the Fleshlight have another purpose of use. They are suitable for couples since they allow men to train in real conditions. For those suffering from premature ejaculation, masturbators imitating human intimacy represent an optimal solution. Whether it is a vagina, anus, or a mouth, they gradually increase your endurance and give more pleasure to your partner.
Features to consider when choosing an Anal Fleshlight
Have you decided to take the plunge and buy an anal Fleshlight masturbator? Here are all the criteria to take into account:
Anal Fleshlight types
The Fleshlight range is very extensive, and there is a masturbator for each need. Within the anal range are those below:
- Fleshlight Go: For men who travel a lot, the Fleshlight Go is easily transportable thanks to their small size. Existing in flesh or ice color, they will accompany you on all your trips.
- Home fleshlights: For those who only need fleshlight at home, the original fleshlight will do the trick. Designed to gently stimulate excitement, they allow new fleshlight users to get used to the sensations. They let users feel the excitement climb at the right speed. They exist in all tastes – mouth, anus, and of course, vagina. It is up to you to choose what makes you fantasize.
- Fleshlight Flight: More elaborate, the Fleshlight Flight will immerse you in an augmented reality. Compatible with the VStroker system, it will vibrate and move to the rhythm of porn movies that you will watch on your computer. These films are shot in POV (point of view/subjective view). So you can feel the movement and almost everything that the actor felt during the shooting. And for lovers of aquatic masturbation, the Fleshlight Flight can be used in the shower.
- Fleshlight Vibro: More classic, the Fleshlight vibro combines masturbator and vibrator. It runs on battery and offers delightful sensations. It is very effective in terms of masturbation.
- Fleshlight Freaks: The latest in the hetero fleshlight range, the Freaks offer colors and textures reminiscent of aliens, vampires, zombies. There is something for everyone!
- Fleshlight for gays: In the Fleshjackrange for homosexuals, we find exactly the same products with the same characteristics, as for example the Levi Karter fleshlight. Only the range of Fleshlight pornstars differs from one brand to another.
- Fleshlight Stamina Training: For those who wish to increase their endurance, the Fleshlight Stamina Training models are specially designed to gradually increase your ability to last. The internal texture is made to gently stimulate the climb to orgasm and help you gradually learn to delay the ejaculation reflex.
- Connected fleshlight: At the forefront of technology, Fleshlight could not miss the fashion of connected sex toys. Two tools will allow you to bring your pleasure into a new dimension. The Kiiro with Fleshlight inside will allow you to live your relationships at a distance with less frustration. With the Onyx for men and the Pearl for women, couples can masturbate and touch each other to the rhythm of each other. The sex toys benefit from the high-end textures with which fleshlight designs all of its sex toys. It’s ideal for transforming a solitary pleasure into a naughty moment for two. The second connected accessory that Fleshlight offers is the VStroker. We talked about it a little above. The Vstroker allows you to connect a fleshlight to a porn movie stored on the USB key supplied with it. The movements of the masturbator are, therefore, perfectly synchronized with the film. Hence, you will become the porn actor in the film!
Porn Stars

All the biggest porn stars have molded fleshlight from their anus, just like the ones in our anal Fleshlight review. With its fleshlight Girls models, which are chosen from among the biggest porn stars of today, the brand has secured an international clientele. They include current and retired pornstars, including Tori Black and Jenna Haze, the exceptional Stoya, and Asa Akira. They also include legends like Jenna Jameson, Tera Patrick, and Lisa Ann. There is the French Katsuni, the stars of the Studio Digital Playground Jesse Jane and Riley Steele, Madame Manuel Ferrara Kayden Kross, or Alexis Texas and her dream ass. None is missing! Asian, black, blonde, young, not so young. Whatever your fantasy is, you will find what you are looking for. Each pornstar usually has 3 fleshlights to their name:
- The lotus and mini lotus models reproduce the vaginas of actresses
- Swallow models reproduce their mouths
- Forbidden models like the Fleshlight Girls Butt Riley Reid and others invite you to enter the anus of pornstars. Even Jesse Jane, who refuses anal scenes, has a modeled toy!
In the homosexual Fleshjack range, models such as the Fleshjack Boys Milan Christopher King Butt also offer their intimacy in the form of fleshlight.
Manual or Automatic?
This is a personal choice, as each user has his preferences. However, be aware that with automatic masturbators, you can not go against its movements or you risk blocking the mechanism. So you can’t do what you want. The manual model, therefore, gives you more flexibility as to your preferences and what you want at the moment when you use it. You can control the depth and the speed of the stroke.
Real-look
The aspect is a criterion to take into account. Do you want an ultra-realistic sex toy? Is the aspect unimportant for you? Only you can answer these questions. The appearance of an anal Fleshlight mold around a star will largely determine the real look of the object. For these types of objects, Fleshlight doesn’t just make random designs. They ensure the toy replicates the real look of the model. In essence, the toy must feature the real look of a human anus, in color, texture, size, and so on.
If it’s tight and textured inside
Just like a loose human private part, a too-loose anal Fleshlight will not bring you the desired pleasure. Rather, a tight opening and internal structure will let you feel the internal membrane of the imitation asshole. It’ll go a long way in bringing you to orgasm.
The sheaths also determine the texture. The sheaths are the internal textures of the masturbator. You will have the choice between sheaths tighter than others, with streaks, bumps, or nodules. In short, there is something for all preferences. You will also have the choice between a duct with a single inlet without any outlet and a duct with an inlet and an outlet.
As for the texture, Real Feel SuperSkin models are the best, although this is the most popular material used today. However, there are peculiarities relating to texture in accordance with the modeled pornstar’s private part. For example, the Fleshlight Girls Butt Stoya has the Epic Texture, and the Fleshlight Girls Butt Eva Lovia has the Spice Texture. So, asides the material, the modeled star’s organ can determine the texture to a greater extent.
The size

In the case of Fleshlights, length matters, and so is the thickness. These are what will make you feel more pleasure. The standard length for anal Fleshlights is 9 inches. The width doesn’t usually get past 10 centimeters. They’re generally made in one-size-fits-all design. Each penis is unique, that is clear to us. However, almost all masturbators are made of materials that adapt easily to the general average and cover the needs of most. Unless you have a very thick or very narrow member, chances are that you will find a masturbator that satisfies you without a problem. The truth is that, with these products, it is not so much the length that determines the comfort and pleasure. The internal design and the material do.
Do you have a very large or long penis? We recommend a flexible Fleshlight that will be sufficiently extensible to allow you to fit inside. Conversely, if you have a smaller penis, then most masturbators without housing will allow manual compression that will include your precious member. Do you have a very long penis? We recommend a masturbator that does not have a base or simply a glans masturbator. So if you use a Fleshlight Quickshoot or a Fleshlight Grip, your penis may come out at the other end.
Color
The color of a Fleshlight isn’t chosen for aesthetic purposes. For most users, it’s a discreet tool, so you don’t want an attractive design that’ll spill your beans. The color of the tool – whether dark, light, or pink like the Fleshlight Girls Riley Reid – must replicate the complexion of your favorite pornstar. This helps bring about that real feel that you’re down with a real human. If you don’t mind, there are also models in ice blue color.
Materials used
This is a very important criterion. The choice of material is important for the texture but also for its lifespan or the comfort of use. You find sex toys designed in many different materials. A “gelatinous” type sleeve, made of silicone, thermoplastic elastomer (TPE or TPR), or the SuperSkin is not the same. By the way, SuperSkin is an incredibly soft and silky patented material developed by the Fleshlight company. It is very similar to a well-groomed vulva skin and hydrated. Available in virtually all our reviewed anal Fleshlights, this is the best material your fleshlight can be made of.
Sealing
If you want to use your sex toy in the shower or in the pool, remember to check that the model you want is waterproof. If not, choose at least a water-resistant model. A waterproof model such as the Fleshlight Girls Butt Riley Reid will not only be usable in wet conditions. It will also be easy to clean.
Is it for accompanied or individual use?
When we know ourselves, we know what we like. But when it comes to using a masturbator with a third person, then you have to be able to define your desires. Some masturbators like the Fleshlight Quickshoot and the Fleshlight Grip are designed to be used by two people. This is because there is a double opening. You can masturbate the partner while giving him a blowjob. You can even enhance the experience by using a flavored water-based lubricant.
Fleshlight suction control

The most basic Fleshlight masturbators have only the hole through which the penis is inserted. But those with a more advanced design have a tape, usually screwed on the opposite end. This can be varied until you find the ideal suction level for you.
Vibe or no vibe?
This is for those who are looking for a complete model. There are models with the option of incorporating a vibrating bullet on the surface of the masturbator. And, oh good heavens… We don’t need to explain anymore, right?
On the other hand, some models connect directly to electricity. Through a set of balls going up and down, they are able to make you enjoy incredibly. We recommend this for those who live alone or whose partners are very open-minded. This is because the truth is that it takes a little preparation to enjoy it at ease. Furthermore, the size is not small, and the sound is always high. But they say that the pleasure is immense!
Ease of cleaning
Make sure the sex toy you want is easy to clean. Hygiene is very important, as you can imagine. To find out if a masturbator is easy to clean, don’t hesitate to look at user reviews on sites like Amazon or Love Honey. This point is always clarified.
Some masturbators are better designed so that after use, it is easy to clean. You only have to open or rewind the masturbator to clean the lubricant or sperm. For other masturbators, which are often sheathed in a case like the majority of the famous Fleshlight products, you must thoroughly clean the inside of the masturbator. Then you’ll make sure to dry it. These help it to remain in good texture and does not retain moisture. You can apply cornstarch or fresh Fleshlight powder to it.
The price
As in everything, there is something for all budgets. You can have an entry-level model for as little as 50 dollars. Meanwhile, depending on technology and autonomy, you can pay several 100s of dollars. Manually, you can have an excellent masturbator between 50 to 150 dollars. If you want a standalone masturbator or one that can be synchronized remotely, don’t expect to pay under 250 dollars.
For porn star products, prices are around $70 to 100. For Fleshjack models, you could pay a few more dollars. For the original model, the price is usually under a hundred bucks. The cheapest is the Fleshlight Flight.
How to use your Fleshlight
Now, you are finally in possession of your Fleshlight – or let’s assume you have. But how are you going to do it with this sex toy brimming with promise? Would you like to take full advantage of its orgasmic potential? Follow our instructions and take inspiration from our experience and the vivid explanation of past users.
- First of all, to feel maximum pleasure, we advise you to warm up your Fleshlight before using it. To do this, remove the SuperSkin sleeve from its case and immerse it in hot water. You can also place the Fleshlight on the rechargeable Fleshlight heating probe on a USB port!
- Once your sleeve has reached the desired temperature, shake it gently to get rid of the excess water.
- Then put it back in its case, or remove your Fleshlight from the heating probe if you have chosen this method.
- For best results, don’t skimp on the lubricant! It’s time to lubricate everything: inlet of the sleeve, inside of the sleeve!
- All you have to do is slip into your Fleshlight and have a lot of fun!
Different methods to test
Your Fleshlight can give you pleasure in different ways:
- On the back
Lie on your back. Place your Fleshlight on the glans of the penis. Then play with this part of your organ a little bit before sliding it deeper into the sleeve. When you are ready, perform back and forth movements along the entire length of your penis.
- On your stomach
Place your Fleshlight next after a pillow and penetrate it as you would penetrate your partner in missionary position. Use your hands and forearms to support your upper body in action.
- Without hands
Place your Fleshlight between the box spring and the mattress. You can also wedge it between the cushions of the sofa to keep it in place. Penetrate your Fleshlight without the help of your hands, kneeling if necessary!
- The shoe method
The shoe method is a variant of the hands-free method. Place the thinner side of your Fleshlight in a shoe previously placed on a hard, level surface. Then enter your masturbator as you would with your partner in missionary position.
- Suction effect
By keeping the back cover of the Fleshlight in place, the comings and goings made during masturbation sessions create a suction effect. This is where most men derive pleasure. To vary the sensations felt, control the airflow by exerting more or less pressure on your masturbator.
How to clean your Anal Fleshlight masturbator
Caring for your Fleshlight will allow you to extend the longevity of its deliciously realistic material. All Fleshlight masturbators are high-end sex toys that are easy to clean. The maintenance tips are the same regardless of your preferred model.
Instructions
- After use, remove the sleeve of your Fleshlight from its case.
- Then place it under a tap of hot water to rid the interior of all traces of lubricant and body fluid.
- The Fleshlight brand specifies that the use of soap is not recommended. This is because this product can damage the SuperSkin texture of your masturbator.
- For deep cleaning, use a cleaner specialized in the maintenance of sex toys. Examples are Cleaner Fresh, Lovehoney, or antibacterial cleaner, Fleshwash.
- Rinse your Fleshlight well and let it air-dry on a clean towel. The interior and exterior of your Fleshlight must be completely dry before you can replace the sleeve in its case. Warning! The more textured it is, the longer it will take to dry.
- We found a tip to shorten the drying time using the plastic tube supplied with the Fleshlight and a fan! Just slide a quarter of the plastic tube into your Fleshlight and place your fan on maximum speed at the other end of the tube. Let it blow and voila!
- Once washed and dried, your Fleshlight may stick a little, but that’s normal! That said, if you want to regain its original softness, we recommend using the regenerating powder Fleshlight. This does wonder!
Additional tips to keep your Fleshlight in perfect condition
And couple more words to the topic, to make sure your fleshlight is in the best condition for a long time:
What to do
- Store your Fleshlight masturbator in its case (if possible).
- Store your other masturbation sleeves in separate pockets.
- Use Fleshlight maintenance powder, which will restore its original softness to the texture of your masturbator.
What not to do
- Put talc on your Fleshlight masturbator.
- Lend out your Fleshlight masturbator.
- Use a silicone lubricant with your Fleshlight masturbator: use only a water-based lubricant.
why are anal fleshlights so damn pricey? is buying one really worth it?
Hey, yeah, fleshlights are pretty expensive. You can use your hand to masturbate for free. But when you think about how much better a fleshlight feels than just using your hand, it is worth the price. Some other types of masturbators are much cheaper but they usually only work for one time and then they stop working which makes them not as good a deal in comparison with a fleshlight which can be washed and used again. Fleshlight is a toy that feels good, very good. Fleshlights have different textures, but the material stays the same. They are made of SuperSkin and it feels really realistic. The care for the fleshlight is also important. If you take care of it, it can last a long time! So, fleshlights can be expensive but they also give you a lot of pleasure and last a long time. There are many types of fleshlights that have different prices. If you want cheaper ones, look at Fleshskins Grip or Quickshots.
Are fleshlights better than the real thing? What do you guys think?
Fleshlights can feel very different. They have a lot of textures. Some might feel tight, or realistic, or intense. You cannot get the warmth and affection from a human partner with a Fleshlight, but they can feel better than sex with another person.
I like anal fleshlights better than the real thing. I don’t think it stretches out as much as men and women which is a good thing. My only complaint is that you will use more lube with an anal model than with a vagina or pussy model. For a really “gay” experience, I like to take it out of its housing and have another man put his cock in the other side and lube our cocks up.
thank you for this awesome article! fighting against stigma is my thing too XD
Has anyone tried the Fleshlight Girls Adriana Chechik Butt? Is it really the best one?
My girlfriend got me this for a gift. It feels like the real thing! Lots of fun with it and the inside pattern feels good.
This is the first time I have gotten a fleshlight. I am glad that I got lucky. After buying it, I read some articles about it being the best of all the fleshlights. The cup is solid and when you put in the inner sleeve, it feels very good when you do things to it. There are two end caps that can change how strong suction is on your penis while you’re using it.
The downside of the dildo is that you have to clean it. I read on a website how to do this. You can make your own cleaner by putting water and alcohol in a certain ratio, but if not, you can buy one. Watch out for mold! When it dries, put corn starch on it so that it doesn’t get wet again. You can use a split hanger with sharp edges to hang dry it or buy an aquarium air pump and hose with holes.