6 Best Dildos for Virgins – Gentle Buddy for Your First Time (Winter 2022)

If you’re looking for a first time dildo, then the Tantus Acute Dildo is a quality choice to consider. It has all the components needed to make your first foray into sex toys a safe and pleasurable experience. The dildo is made from silicone which means it is flexible enough to mold to your body but still rigid enough that you don’t have to worry about inserting it wrong. Furthermore, silicone is a warm material. It will stay around room temperature which means that when you use it, there won’t be a cold shock. Another nice feature is the flared base. While most newbies won’t be inserting it fully, the base means nothing will get stuck. It’s also very easy to hold and control.

One important aspect of using any sort of dildo is cleaning it. This can be a bit annoying but it is a step that needs to be taken after each use. However, with the Tantus Acute Dildo, you can actually place it right in the dishwasher. There’s no excuse to not clean it! Finally, the dimensions of the Tantus Acute Dildo are perfect for beginners. The insertable length is 5 inches, which isn’t too intimidating. The 1.25-inch diameter will provide a good experience but is not so large that you won’t feel overwhelmed.

What makes it special?

• Silicone is warm and flexible
• Diameter is not too large
• Easy to hold and use

What cons did we find?

• May need to upgrade to a more intense dildo at some point
• Color may not be for everyone

There are many ways to use a dildo and one of the fun aspects of such a product is discovering these methods. The traditional way to use a dildo is by holding it in one hand but you can also find dildos that allow you to use them hands-free. The JimmyJane Canta is our favorite hands-free model because of its suction cup base. At first glance, you might not even realize that it has this feature. The discreet look, along with the safe and powerful base, is why it tops our list. The suction cup isn’t clunky and instead looks like a natural extension of the entire dildo.

The JimmyJane Canta has a simply but effective shape to it. The tip is tapered and smooth for easy insertion. Then, it flares a bit to create a feeling of fullness. Finally, the base is easy to hold onto, if you want, or to set up for solo play. The JimmyJane Canta is made from a soft silicone material. It won’t get cold and the flexibility is just enough so you won’t be overwhelmed. In addition, the 1.3-inch diameter is great for first-timers and while the 6-inch insertable length is a bit larger than other options, it is still not too long.

Why are we impressed?

• Suction cup base is sturdy and discrete
• Tapered design is unique
• Purple color is bold and gorgeous

What negatives must you be aware of?

• Quite pricey
• Insertable length may be a bit too long

When we talk about dildos, they are not usually vibrators. However, if you want a dual-purpose toy, then you should definitely consider the Lovelife Cuddle Mini. This dildo has an easy-to-use vibrating function. Simply press on the button and then you can cycle through seven different vibration patterns. This is enough choice that you will find exactly what you are looking for.

The Lovelife Cuddle Mini has a nice curve to it, so when in use you can find your g-spot. The head is a bit larger than some would like but it is very smooth so insertion shouldn’t be too difficult. Furthermore, it is only 4 inches in size which is perfect for newbies. The 1.1-inch diameter is great for those new to dildos. This size also makes it nice and discreet so you can easily take it with you on your travels. To charge it, simply use the included USB cord. There is also a satin pouch so you can safely store it away. You actually get two color choices with the Lovelife Cuddle Mini. These include a bright pink or a teal color, so you can customize it to your preference.

What do we love it for?

• Compact and easy to travel with
• Control is easy to navigate
• Affordable vibrator/dildo combination

What were we disappointed with?

• No option to select the vibration intensity
• Head may be too large at first

If you are completely new to dildos, then sometimes the most basic option is the best one. Those that find themselves overwhelmed by all the choices can breathe a bit easier with the Lovehoney Slimline. Not only is it easy to understand and use, but it feels great, too. With an all-black design, you can see exactly what you are getting. The slight curve at the top makes it easy to insert and will help you reach that important g-spot.

The Lovehoney Slimline has an insertable length of 5 inches, which is pretty standard. Its circumference is also a nice 3 inches, which means you won’t feel too stretched out with it. As for the construction, it is perfect for beginners. The flared base is easy to manipulate and you don’t have to worry about anything getting stuck. It is also harness-compatible, which you may want to try with a partner at a later date. For those who want to use it for solo play, the suction cup base is quite convenient.  The silicone material isn’t cold to the touch and has enough flexibility that you can feel comfortable when using this dildo.

What makes it stand out?

• Suction cup base is convenient
• Simple to use
• Compatible with a harness for future play

Which disadvantages must you keep in mind?

• Design is a bit lackluster
• Color may not be everyone’s choice

Now, if you are completely new to dildos, we do not exactly recommend a glass dildo right away. This is especially true if you are not sexually experienced. Glass dildos have an intense feeling to them. Because they cannot bend at all, you have a very full feeling that can take a bit getting used to. However, if you know your body and are ready to experiment, then the Glas Candy Land is a great first glass dildo.

As far as dimensions go, this is a nice way to start. The insertable length is 4.25 inches, which is not very long, and the diameter is only 2 inches, so you will be able to get used to it quickly. Along the side of the Glas Candy Land, there are small glass beads which add to the texture. Go slowly when using this dildo until you get used to the sensation. The tip of the dildo has a nice, smooth texture, so insertion is nice and easy. At the base, you will find a narrow want that you can use to hold onto and manipulate. Overall, this gorgeous glass dildo is a pleasant surprise.

Why is it special?

• Smooth head makes it easy to insert
• Dimensions are practical
• Gorgeous design

What are the flaws?

• Handle could be larger for an easier grips
• Textured design can be a bit overwhelming

You may have an idea of what a dildo should look like and if that image is a replicate penis, then the HoneyPlayBox Logan is the perfect choice for you. Quite simply, it looks pretty real. Complete with a circumcised head and textured testicles, there are even a few veins along the side. This isn’t an overly intimidating dildo, however, so it is still great as a virgin dildo. The 5-inch insertable length is not intimidating and the 1-inch diameter makes for easy insertion. If you are looking for a realistic experience, this is a bold choice.

The HoneyPlayBox Logan has a nice feature for solo play. It has a suction cup base which means you can mount it to any flat surface and take it for a ride. The suction cup is heavy duty and it won’t slide around, so it is very safe. The texture along the sides and with the testicles is an added element. While it might take a little to get used to it, once you get more experience you will come to appreciate it. Furthermore, the ridges on the testicles are meant to stimulate your clitoris, as long as you can insert the dildo fully.

What are our favorite features?

• Realistic design is not too overwhelming
• Length and diameter are great for beginners
• Suction cup base is sturdy

What could be better?

• Clitoral stimulation only works when fully inserted
• Texture may take a bit to get used to