What is the G-spot and where to look for it
We’ve all heard of the g-spot, but, unfortunately, many of us are still unsure of where to find it. Of course, it isn’t impossible to do so if you know where to look. The seemingly elusive g-spot is the urethral sponge, which rests against your vaginal wall. To find it, you just need to experiment using a single finger. Insert it into your vagina about two or three inches and curve it so the tip is facing your belly button.
When the g-spot is stimulated, it will press against the mons pubis, which in turn presses against your clitoris and the clitoral ligaments. This stimulation then creates pleasure, so you’ll know when you’ve hit the right spot.
An advantage of adding g-spot stimulation to your sexual routine is that it offers a different type of orgasm than what you experience with clitoral stimulation. Separately, they offer varying experiences, while stimulating them together can offer more intense climaxes. Not only does this increase your pleasure, but it also gives you the opportunity to learn more about your body and how to satisfy yourself, whether you’re alone or with a partner.
Features to consider when choosing a G-spot vibrator
If you’re having trouble choosing a new g-spot vibrator, there are a few features that you may want to consider. This will ensure that you’re getting the right model for you.
If it doubles as a clitoral vibrator
Though models like the We-Vibe Rave focus on the g-spot, with the option of adding a separate bullet vibrator or some finger stimulation for the clitoris, there are several models available that let you target both of these areas at the same time. The Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl is one of these models, with the thick g-spot vibrator shaft that is inserted inside you and the separate arm that extends to reach your clitoris on the outside.
There is a very important reason that these two options are put onto the same unit. When you stimulate either of these areas, it gives you a specific type of pleasure. They aren’t the same sensations, either, so the orgasms are different.
When you combine the stimulation, hitting both areas at the same time, it can enhance the pleasure you’re feeling and the orgasms, making them much more explosive for double the enjoyment.
The Greedy Girl is called a rabbit vibrator since the clitoral end has little tabs that look like rabbit ears. These fit around the clitoris, holding it between them as it vibrates. Other models that offer both g-spot and clitoral stimulation have a rounded end, like the one on the We-Vibe Nova. This lets you move the clitoral end around as needed to give you the climax you’re looking for.
Insertable length and circumference
Though our parts are designed the same, not every woman is the same size on the inside, as well as the outside. So, it’s no wonder that some of these models will be too big for some women while being the perfect fit for others. You may also find that a vibrator is a bit too small for your liking if you prefer a bit more girth to your toys or your men.
That’s why you should pay close attention to the length and the circumference of the model you’re thinking of buying. The length tells you how far the piece can go inside of you. Some women need a longer piece to hit the g-spot properly while others prefer something a bit shorter.
The circumference is also important since this tells you how wide the piece is. If you are tighter on the inside, a vibrator that is too large will cause you more pain than pleasure, making it a toy you likely won’t want to use ever again. For the looser women, more girth may be needed to give them the experience and the sensations they are looking for.
The best way to choose a model is to try out a smaller one and work your way up, especially if you’re a beginner to anything sexual. This will ensure that there won’t be any pain in your toy play unless you want there to be.
Materials used
One common material used for g-spot vibrators is plastic, which is quite hard and firm. Plastic is also durable, though it has no flexibility to it and it doesn’t feel even close to realistic as you’re using it. This doesn’t mean that plastic doesn’t get the job done, it just isn’t the best material out there for what you’re using it for.
Models like the Lovehoney Deep Blue G use silicone since it has a soft, velvety surface, making it a great option for your most sensitive areas. Silicone is also safe on your skin since most models leave out the phthalates and other harmful substances. This material is also flexible, so it moves with you instead of staying rigid as you use it.
Glass is another option for a g-spot model. These usually have some sort of texturing, like the swirls found on the Lovehoney Spiral G-Spot Sensual Glass Dildo. This material is firm like plastic but has the advantage of temperature play. You can cool it down in the fridge or run it under some warm water to heat it before you use it. This can alter the experience, giving you some new sensations to enjoy. The glass used in these models is durable, too, so you don’t need to worry about these pieces breaking, even if you’re a bit rough with it, so your lady parts aren’t at risk of serious cuts.
As its name states, the njoy Fun Wand Stainless Steel Dildo is made of stainless steel, which is the most durable material there is for these types of toys. Stainless steel won’t bend or break, plus you can use it for temperature play the same way you would the glass models. Steel is a bit more sensitive to scratching it you’re using abrasive materials to clean it, though. If you treat it well, it will last for decades.
There is no right material for anyone. Some people prefer the soft supple feel of silicone while others like the rigidity of metal. You can stick with one or keep a few options in your toy chest to swap out as you see fit.
Vibration modes/speeds/patterns
The best vibrator for g-spot will offer a variety of modes to choose from. These can include varying speeds or intensity levels, as well as a combination of vibration patterns to choose from. This allows you to experiment with your vibrator, trying out the different options to see what you like.
These varying modes also have an additional advantage since they can offer different types of stimulation depending on what type of experience you’re looking for. If you’re interested in slowing things down for a longer play session, you can use the slower speeds and patterns to extend the pleasure. If you have less time to play or prefer multiple orgasms in shorter periods, you can speed things up and get things finished much faster.
Another benefit of these vibration options is that you can try them out to learn what you like. Women like a variety of different pleasure options, so having multiple options to choose from allows you to learn a bit more about your body and what you like before settling on any specific vibrations.
Power source
Vibrators don’t vibrate unless they have some sort of power source to run them. Batteries are the traditional option, though these require a constant supply to keep your vibrator running when you need it. They also add an extra cost, especially if you’re using your new toy regularly, so you’ll need to factor this in when choosing the model you like.
All of the vibrator models in our reviews have left the batteries out and are instead rechargeable using a USB cable. This allows you to recharge the unit between uses in as little as an hour. This means you don’t need to constantly refill your battery supply. The USB cable also has the advantage of allowing you to charge your vibrator anywhere, so you can use it when you’re traveling as well as at home.
There are two types of USB cables included with these toys. One is a regular cable that plugs into a hole in the vibrator to charge it. There are also magnetic USB cables, like the one on the Fun Factory Stronic G. These use magnets that attach the cable to the charging port, which makes increases the waterproofing since there are no holes for moisture to get into.
Runtime
The runtime of the vibrator you choose tells you how long you can use it before you need to charge it again. Most models can run for about an hour between charges, though some have double the runtime for even longer sessions.
The downside to the longer runtimes is that these models usually also take longer to charge. This may not be an issue if you keep it charged between uses but if you’re ready to go or in the middle of a session and the unit stops working, you’re going to have to find an alternative way to pleasure yourself.
Be sure to check out the runtime of any unit before you buy it to be sure you know how long you can use it for and how long it takes to charge it before you can get started. You should also be sure that it is fully charged before you get started with it to avoid any frustrating interruptions.
Maybe a dildo?
There are some benefits, as well as a few flaws, to choosing a dildo over a vibrator. These come in a variety of shapes and materials, so you can choose the one you like best. They also don’t require any batteries or charging cables, so they are ready to go whenever you need them. They can be taken with you anywhere you go for some pleasure during your downtime on business trips or vacations. They are also great for couples play.
The downside to dildos is that they require you to do all of the work when using them. If you have hand or wrist issues that can cause pain if you use them too much, these aren’t a great option for you. Even healthy joints can get sore if you’re enjoying a longer session, so you may need a break to recover before you can use it again.
