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Last updated: September 30, 2023
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Take your dildo game to the next level with a thrusting dildo. Thrusting dildoes feature an extending segment that propels itself in and out of you, simulating the feeling of penetrative sex. Thrusting dildos offer a more advanced level of stimulation. These toys are usually designed to look phallic and can be used for both vaginal and anal penetration.
We conducted a thorough review of dozens of thrusting dildos to bring you the top 5 toys available. Our number one pick for best all-around is the Fun Factory Stronic Real. If that delightful purple thrusting vibrator isn’t your style we have four other great recommendations to consider, including a thrusting butt plug.
If you’re new to the world of thrusting dildos, we recommend checking out our guide after the review section. We’ll walk you through everything you need to know about these toys, including how they work and the different types available. We’ll also provide tips on choosing the right type, material, and speed to ensure you find the perfect thrusting dildo for your needs.
"This thrusting butt plug is made of luxurious “velvet-touch” silicon. It’s weighted motor gives it a pleasant heft and improves the thrusting sensations."
The Fun Factory Stronic Real takes our Editor’s Choice award for best all around thrusting dildo. This realistically shaped sex toy has well-marked glans that massages your erogenous zones with its multiple modes of vibration.
Made of super soft silicone, this vibrator performs back and forth movements, with 7 speeds and 3 different vibration modes for your pleasure. One of the best thrusting dildo toys on the market, we found it’s thrusting strength to be more than powerful enough. With a full charge the Stronic has an impressive 2 hour runtime. Remember to take some water breaks.
It is fully-waterproof and submersible. This sex toy and its powerful back-and-forth movements can accompany you everywhere – under the duvet, in the shower, or in the tropics.
The Fun Factory Stronic Real has a wonderful shape: tapered and slightly curved to facilitate penetration. The automatic thrusting dildo is USB rechargeable. It is made of firm, but super silky silicone. It has a circumference of 4.75 inches, an insertable length of 5.5 inches, and a total length of 8 inches.
Our Best Value pick is the “Long John” Realistic Thrusting Vibrator. It offers a great value with 7.5 inches of insertable length, 7 different vibrating patterns, and 3 thrusting speeds.
The vibrator features easy-to-use control buttons at the bottom, a realistic head shape, and a veiny shaft. We don’t love the way the veins look, but they definitely feel good inside you.
This thrusting dildo runs off of 3 AA batteries. We always prefer a rechargeable unit where possible, but at lower price-points it’s a compromise we’re willing to accept. The dildo is made of soft plastic which is firmer than silicon self-thrusting dildos, but still pleasant to use.
The Long John Thruster is not waterproof. The manufacturer recommends the use of water-based lube.
More features: weighted motor, USB charging, remote control, waterproof, storage bag included, hypoallergenic, 5.25 in overall length, 1.5 in width
The Doc Johnson A-Play Thrust takes the award for Best Thrusting ButtPlug. You can check out our other thrusting butt plug recommendations, but this plug is our Editor’s Choice Award thanks to its many incredible features.
The Doc Johnson A-Play Thrust is programmed with seven distinct rhythms which we found ranged from “gentle stimulation” to “intensely pleasurable”. This plug is made of “velvet-touch” silicone which gives it a luxuriously soft touch which is smooth in all the right ways. Even better, the silicone is body-safe, hypoallergenic, and phthalate-free. This butt plug features a broad base that offers personal safety and comfort.
The most unique feature is that the plug warms to body temperature when you turn it on which is a feature we found made it much easier to relax.
The Doc Johnson A-Play Thrust butt plug is the toy you go for when looking for the thrusting anal plug that has it all. The wireless controller is easy to use and lets you control all the functions without touching the plug itself. Finally, this toy is completely waterproof which means can play with in the tub, pool, or beach without damaging it.
What are its best features?
Warms to body temperature
Seven thrusting patterns offer various sensations
Wireless remote control provides ease of use
Waterproof design delivers unlimited fun possibilities
Compact bag provides discreet storage
What could be improved?
Some beginners might find the sensations a bit intense
If you prefer your toys to look like the real thing, you’ll like the Lifelike Lover Luxe Thrusting and Rotating Dildo. This device is made of soft silicone that is more firm than flexible. It also has a realistic head, textured veins, and lifelike balls. When it came to the feeling of this thruster, we found it to be extremely realistic.
This rechargeable model has an insertable length of 6.5 inches and a 5-inch girth. The material is waterproof and the device has both variable speed and multiple patterns.
You can use this model as a handheld device or you can use the suction-cup base to stick it to any clean, flat surface for hands-free use. The base is also harness-compatible! This toy can be used with your favorite water-based lubricant for smooth, sensual thrusting.
What we liked: The Lifelike Lover Luxe dildo is one of the best thrusting dildos we found. We loved the waterproof and soft silicone and how realistic it feels. It has a suction base that is harness-compatible for versatile, hands-free use.
What could be better: Though the varying vibrations are enjoyable, it can be difficult to adjust the settings while you’re using this toy during solo play. The addition of a remote could improve this issue. The vibrator is also a bit noisy, so not as discreet when there are others in the house with you.
The exclusive collaboration of Lovehoney experts with the famous sex toy brand Fun Factory has given birth to an exceptional pussy shaker and ass thruster! The Stronic Drei vibrator’s back and forth movements wonderfully reproduce the rhythm of love as a couple. Equipped with 10 silent vibration modes, it will allow you to customize your pleasure.
In smooth and soft notched silicone, this thrusting dildo sex toy with 5-inch circumference and a curved shaft targets your erogenous zones with precision. It leads you to sensational orgasms, in vaginal mode, as in anal mode. Easy to control via the 3 buttons of its ergonomic handle, it leaves you free to concentrate on your happiness.
USB rechargeable with the included Click-n-Charge magnetic cable; the device will accompany you wherever the call of pleasure is heard.
It adds a locking function and waterproof coating to its list of qualities. This powerful vibrator will, therefore, follow you on your naughty little escapades. A lubricant has the power to increase excitement and pleasure, as a couple or in the company of just your sex toy. We, therefore, recommend that you cover the vibrator with a water-based lubricant before use.
Why did it make our list?
Waterproof for water fun
Ultra-quiet
10 thrusting patterns
A great travel toy
Free of allergens
What is not ideal about it?
Needs a carry bag
Things to Consider
Dildos are the most classic sex toy and have been with us since the beginning of time. However, the ability to self-thrust has not been seen in any sex toy like this. Do you still have some gray areas that concern the purchase of a thrusting dildo? Now we will try to explain everything you need to dispel these doubts in our buying guide. We’ll also give you a series of tips on the use and maintenance of a thrusting dildo.
Thrusting dildo – what is it?
A thrusting dildo is a penetrative sex toy which automates the act of penetration by itself. It offers you a hands-free sexual experience. This mode of operation makes it similar to when you’re being taken on by your partner or a sex-machine.
Thrusting dildos vs. regular
A thrusting dildo is different from a regular dildo for many reasons. First, it offers more back and forth motions and less work. You just have to concentrate on the erotic sensation it supplies. The thrusting dildo allows for hands-free action. It lets you do more with your free hands, i.e., to play more with other erogenous zones. Also, many thrusting dildos have their remote controls. With the toy doing the thrusting, and the free hands, you can increase the sensation by varying the speed and vibration modes. With rabbit-styled designs, some thrusting dildos offer double stimulations. So, it lets you have the best of the feeling out of your vagina or your ass.
Features to consider when choosing a thrusting dildo
Given the number of options, materials, types, shapes, and sizes available in the market, it can be overwhelming to choose a thrusting dildo. It’s worth asking yourself first what you’re looking for, in terms of stimulation and experience, and how you’re going to use it. With that idea clear, here are some of the most important features to watch out for in a thrusting dildo.
Type
What kind of thrusting dildos are there? If you walk into any sex store or search the web, you will find a lot of different dildos, by size, shape, and material. Although the best known are realists, we can find different types depending on what they are designed for.
The realistic: These are the ones that realistically mimic a penis. In many cases, they are modeled from a real member, that of a porn actor, for example. They copy the glans, veins, and sometimes and the testicles. Some even come with a special liquid ejaculation system.
For the stimulation of the G point: These are those specially designed to stimulate the female G point, the most sensitive part inside the vagina. Like the Fun Factory X Lovehoney Stronic Drei,they have a curved shape to reach the G point during insertion.
Annal dildos: These are those intended for anal play. They have a stopper, a wider part at the end. This is to prevent them from being fully introduced inside and the unwanted accident of being retained inside the anus.
For stimulation of the P point: These toys are those designed to stimulate the male P point, that is to say, to stimulate the prostate by anal penetration.
Rabbit dildos: These are intended for double stimulation. It can be inserted in the anus and vagina of the same person.
Speeds and patterns
Thrusting dildos come with the ability to vary the speed modes and vibrating patterns. The more you have, the better the user experience they offer.
If it’s your first toy, a model with 2-5 speed modes is sufficient. However, if you’ve been on this road for quite a time, models with around 10 to 15 speed and patterns are there for your sexual exploration and satisfaction.
Material
The material is an essential criterion for the hygiene and durability of the product, and for the experience they can provide us on a sexual level. Cheaper materials degrade more with use and require more hygienic care. However, the thing is they are more flexible and feel more like a real penis.
Nowadays, dildos are made of all kinds of materials. They range from materials that could be described as classic: metal, glass, wood, ceramic, and stone, some of them made by hand. Among modern materials, the most widely used and which we can recommend is medical grade silicone. Also common are gelatin, latex, PVC, and plastics. Today, most manufacturers use safe, tested, phthalate-free materials. These phthalates, chemicals added to certain materials to make them more flexible, are considered potentially dangerous to health.
The following is a list of the most common materials used in making dildos and their characteristics:
Jell-O: They are very flexible. They are soft to the touch but sometimes sticky. It is a very porous material that makes cleaning and hygiene difficult. They are the cheapest and degrade quickly with use. A water-based lubricant should be used.
PVC: They are quite flexible but firm and soft to the touch. They are not odorless and are also porous, which makes it difficult to maintain perfect hygiene over time. They are durable but eventually degrade with use. Although they can be used with silicone-based lubricants, a water-based lubricant is recommended.
TPE (thermoplastic elastomer) and TPR (thermoplastic rubber): They have a soft, supple but firm feel. They are not odorless and, although porous, they are much less so than the previous two. They are more hygienic and durable, but if not properly maintained, they also degrade. A water-based lubricant should be used.
Silicone: Soft but firm, the touch is very soft. They are not porous, which facilitates hygiene and disinfection. They are odorless and hypoallergenic, provided the silicone is medical-grade. They last a long time in perfect condition despite their use. They are always used with a water-based lubricant. Silicone dildos offer a very good balance between durability, hygiene, and economy. They offer an experience very close to that of conventional sex with a male member. They are the most popular nowadays. When well-made, they can last a long time and provide great moments of pleasure.
Glass: They are sturdy, often with stretch marks and ripples. They can be heated or cooled to boost temperature and exert firm, sultry pressure on intimate areas. They are odorless, non-porous, easy to clean, and disinfect. They are very durable but fragile. They can be used with all types of lubricants.
Metal: These are usually stainless steel, with hard shapes and usually curved to stimulate different points with firm pressure. They can be heated and cooled to play with temperature sensations. They are odorless, non-porous, and very easy to clean and disinfect. They are very durable and have almost eternal life. They can be used with all types of lubricants.
Ceramic: They are hard and often hollow on the inside, so they can be filled with cold or hot water to boost the temperature. They are odorless, non-porous, and easy to clean. They are durable but fragile. They can be used with all types of lubricants.
Note: More conventional materials, such as metal, hard plastic, glass, and ceramics, are very durable, although the latter two are more fragile. They are very hygienic and easy to maintain. You can have them with you for as long as you want – almost for life. The experience they offer is more intense, but that doesn’t mean it’s less enjoyable. Hard materials like these are more suitable for professionals. An example is the Long John Realistic Thrusting Vibrator.
Shape and texture
We can also find a wide variety of shapes and textures on the market. The shape, the curvature of some dildos, are designed to reach specific sexual points, the G point in women, and the P point in men. For anal pleasure, those with a wavy texture, with bumps, are ideal.
The ridged textures along the body of the dildo will help stimulate more erogenous zones, like nerve endings in the vulva. It will give you new sensations. It’s the same as with streaky condoms.
Of course, it’s a matter of taste and sexual experimentation.
Length, Insertable length and Circumference
Size is also important when choosing a penetrative sex toy like a thrusting dildo. On the market, there are small, medium, and large dildos. The size is not only important in length but also in thickness, diameter, or circumference. The ‘normal’ in thrusting dildos are those that are around 15 and 20 cm long and with a diameter of 3 to 5 cm.
The question of size is, of course, very personal. Only you can decide what is best for you in this area. If you intend to use them for anal sex and don’t have a lot of experience with it, it’s always best to start with something small.
While they are usually long (around 10 to 14 inches), rabbit dildos are usually shorter in insertable length because of the intersecting shaft. The length isn’t often a problem since you can choose not to insert it all. So, the longer it is, the better in the long run as you’ll want longer toys as you use it every day. The circumference is the most important thing to watch out for. Although using lube can facilitate insertion and reduce pain. However, the sex toy can generate a lot of pain if it’s too wide, and you’re a fresher with sex toys. 1.5 to 2 inches is ideal for a starter. And if you’re a pro, you can choose a model with a circumference within the range of 4-6 inches, like the Fun Factory X Lovehoney Stronic Drei.
Waterproof
Although it’s a bit hard finding an electronic sex toy like thrusting dildos, which are waterproof, it doesn’t mean you can’t find one. Good examples are the Fun Factory X Lovehoney Stronic Drei. Waterproof dildos aren’t only easy to clean and submersible for water fun. They are non-porous, don’t retain particles, and will, therefore, be safer to use with no fear of bacteria or fungi infection.
Price
We know this criterion works for all products. But, in the case of a thrusting dildo or vibrator, you can still find very economical models like the Long John Realistic Thrusting Vibrator. This can be very interesting to try if it’s your first time. It’s basically about balancing the quality of the product with the budget you want to invest for your enjoyment.
If this is your first time buying one and you have never used a dildo before, the cheaper ones are a good option. Its durability will be lower, however. You can still find high-quality models that can also be used by starters.
Does using a thrusting dildo pose a health risk?
Sexual hygiene is paramount to avoid infections and STDs (sexually transmitted diseases). With dildos, the risk is very low. However, if they are not cleaned well before and after each use or if a condom is not used, there may be a risk of bacterial vaginosis, urinary tract infections, and chlamydia.
If you are using them for anal penetration, do not use them in the genital area without washing them well first. You can also use a condom and throw it away. Anal bacteria, if they come in contact with the genital area, can cause vaginosis and other urinary tract infections.
This applies to both solo employment and couple employment. If you share them, whether it’s your regular or temporary partner, keep in mind what we have already said while using them. If you are going to share them with a friend, it is important to wash them thoroughly and even disinfect them to avoid sexually transmitted diseases like human papillomavirus or herpes.
Finally, a dildo can be used without a problem during pregnancy. It is only in cases of high-risk pregnancy that its use is contraindicated, as is the use of other sex toys. The most advisable thing is to consult the gynecologist, who best will be able to advise you on its use during this period.
How to clean your thrusting dildo
A dildo is designed to penetrate and play in some of the most sensitive and intimate areas of the body, anus, and vagina. Therefore, hygiene is essential. You must wash them thoroughly, with water and neutral soap, before and after each use. This will prevent any risk of infection and allow your toy to last longer in perfect condition.
Non-porous materials like silicone, glass, metal, or ceramic can be easily washed and should be disinfected from time to time. This can be done with alcohol or by sterilizing them in boiling water for a few minutes. They can then be dried with a cloth or chamois leather. In the case of silicone, it is best to let them air dry.
Porous materials, such as gelatin, PVC, TPE / TPR, are also cleaned with soap and water. But they cannot be sterilized (they cannot withstand high temperatures) or disinfected with alcohol (they can react chemically). Although an antibacterial erotic toy cleaning liquid can be used, over time, microorganisms can remain in the pores.
So we have to let this kind of dildo dry in the air. Whether porous or not, it is advisable to store them separately in individual fabric bags and preferably in a cool place. Very high temperatures, in the case of porous temperatures, can cause their degradation.
While there are alternatives such as the classic dildos and the rabbit toys, it’s hard finding a sex toy that can do the work of a thrusting dildo. The only alternative which offers what the thrusting dildos do is the sex-machine. The advantage of thrusting dildos, however, is that they have discreet designs, are transportable and portable.
Dildos aren’t humans. They can’t give you foreplay, which can provide the right arousal for the production of genital fluids for lubrication. The makers of thrusting dildos, therefore, always advise users to apply lubricants generously before use, especially if you are a starter. Water-based lubes are the only choice you have with silicone dildos. Meanwhile, silicone and water-based lubes can be applied on plastics, glasses, metals, and other harder materials.
Our Verdict
Thrusting dildos are sex toys per excellence. They are the next thing after classic phallic sex toys. They have a close performance ability with the sex-machine. They are the perfect choice if you want a handsfree experience. They’re ideal if you want a toy for anal or vaginal penetration, and if you want a dual stimulating sex toy.
The Fun Factory Stronic Real is our Editor’s Choice and the overall best thrusting dildo. Realistically shaped, this sex toy has a well-marked glans that massages the erogenous zones with its multiple modes of vibration. Firm, it is rechargeable and has 10 speed and vibration modes.
The winner of the Best Value nomination is the Long John Realistic Thrusting Vibrator. This will offer you, like a sex machine, a completely automated anal penetration with powerful and deep back and forth movements. Finally, the Anal Fantasy Collection Vibrating Thruster is our Budget Pick. We like it because it is made of hard plastic, is firm to the touch, and is free of latex and phthalates.
