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Last updated: April 03, 2024
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A dildo is touted as a magic wand that can work sexual miracles. Unfortunately, not all dildos do and you may end up with a useless and toxic piece of plastic. However, with our selection of the best realistic dildoes, you can be sure about the quality.
We researched 22 products to find 6 outstanding models, the Shane Diesel Realistic Dildo with Balls was chosen as our Editor’s Choice. We made sure our picks have a lifelike form, with an uncanny resemblance to a real penis. We also considered the length. 8 or 9 inches is ideal for experienced users while 5 inches is more suitable for beginners. Next, we made sure they are made from body-safe materials like platinum silicone, PVC, and soft plastic. Finally, we checked girth and flexibility for enjoyable use.
More features: suction cup, wired controller, phthalate-free, based on real model
The Shane Diesel Realistic Dildo with Balls is molded after a real model, complete with huge, lifelike balls, and looks and feels like the real thing. It’s made from phthalate-free PVC, with an exterior that is as soft and smooth as skin. With a length of 10 inches and an insertable length of 8 inches, this real skin dildo will take you to the deepest throngs of pleasure. Its 7-inch circumference gives you the kind of mind-blowing fullness that leads to uncontrollable release.
Because of its enormous size, this lifelike dildo may be intimidating for new toy users, but experienced dildo users will take to it with zest. If you’re new to dildos, you can still enjoy its pleasure by inserting just a portion of it, and then keep pushing more of it in until you can comfortably take it all in. Easily the best realistic vibrating dildo on offer, it lets you double your pleasure with the vibrating function, a powerful feature that pulses with enough vigor to send you over the edge. Regulate the speed and movement using the wired controller that’s connected to the dildo. It takes 3 AAA batteries to power it, but these are not provided when you buy the toy. You have to procure them separately.
To use it with a harness, you’ll need an O-ring with a 2.25-inch diameter. And because it has a suction cup at the bottom, you can enjoy using it hands-free by simply placing it on a flat surface.
Be careful not to immerse it in water or expose it to moisture in any other way, as it’s not waterproof.
Why are we impressed?
Long and wide
Vibrating power
Phthalate-free
Supports harness and hands-free use
What negatives must you be aware of?
Not waterproof
Batteries not included
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Consumer Engagement
Chosen by 3277 people in the past 30 days
9.8
Customer Feedback
Based on cross-platform reviews
9.5
Brand Reputation
Based on web analytics & content of negative reviews
More features: submersible, latex- and phthalate-free, fit for anal insertion, non-slip flat base
The Vixen Johnny VixSkin Realistic comes in a filling size, with a pleasure-inducing 7-inch shaft and a 1.75-inch girth that fills you up nicely. It has a solid and firm core that ensures it never goes limp when inserted and a soft exterior that is flexible and has the feel of a natural erection. It’s designed for both vaginal and anal use, and its flat, non-slip base allows you to attach a harness (you need a 1.75-inch diameter O-ring for this). The head is large, firm, and slightly curved, and it angles nicely to hit the G-spot and P-spot. Small crevices on the foreskin give it a realistic feel and massage you softly as you move it through the vaginal or anal opening. Raised veins on the shaft and balls equally caress your vaginal or anal opening and walls, giving rise to intense sensations.
This VixSkin dildo is made from dual-layered 100% platinum silicone, so it’s hypoallergenic and can be used by anyone. It’s non-porous and won’t soak in fluids that could make it unhygienic and unsafe. This realistic silicone dildo doesn’t tear or degrade, so it’s durable. Plus, it’s easy to clean: you can boil it for 3 minutes, wash it with an antibacterial soap and water, or run it through a dishwasher. But you must only use water-based lubes on the dildo, not silicone-based ones. The latter could dissolve the silicone and destroy the dildo.
Why are we impressed?
Medical-grade silicone material
Hypoallergenic
Flexible
Waterproof
Non-slip base
What negatives must you be aware of?
No suction cup
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Consumer Engagement
Chosen by 6024 people in the past 30 days
9.6
Customer Feedback
Based on cross-platform reviews
9.1
Brand Reputation
Based on web analytics & content of negative reviews
More features: submersible, latex- and phthalate-free, curved, P-spot stimulation, removable Vac-U-Lock suction cup
One for the truly adventurous souls, this hyper realistic dildo will certainly add a new level of fun to your sexcapades. It’s molded after a real-life model and measures a whooping 12 inches, with an insertable length of 9 inches and a 2.25-inch girth. Firm and filling, it will give you waves of sensations you never thought were possible. One of the uniquely kinky things about this most realistic feeling dildo is that it has a deep curve slightly below the head, one that hits your walls in a different way, the good, kinky kind of different. The shape and length stimulate the P-spot perfectly and get you fired up for an inevitable orgasm. A roughly veined shaft and detailed balls serve up rivers of pleasure.
It has a removable Vac-U-Lock suction cup, which allows you to enjoy hands-free use. It’s also F-Machine compatible, if you would want to connect it to one.
It’s made from latex- and phthalate-free PVC and has a firm yet soft feel. The interior is firm to guarantee your satisfaction, with the exterior maintaining a degree of flexibility that gives it the feel of a real penis. It is waterproof, so you can immerse it in water. To clean it, wash with antibacterial soap and water or use a sex toy cleaner. For comfort during use, apply a water-based lube.
It comes with a silken carrying case.
What stands out?
Huge and thick
Latex- and phthalate-free
Waterproof
Removable suction cup
Carrying case
What cons did we manage to find?
Can be uncomfortable for beginners
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Consumer Engagement
Chosen by 2218 people in the past 30 days
9.5
Customer Feedback
Based on cross-platform reviews
9.2
Brand Reputation
Based on web analytics & content of negative reviews
More features: submersible, latex- and phthalate-free, strong suction cup, hand-finished, color variation
The first thing you notice immediately after taking this toy out of its box is just how real it looks. From the detailed shaft and protruding head to how veiny it feels in your hand, this dildo is as close as it gets to a real cock. It’s a look and texture that results from the exquisite hand finishing done on it, and you’ll attest to what a difference this makes when you use it.
It measures 10.5 inches in length, with an insertable length of 9.5 inches and a girth of 2.5 inches. If you are new to using dildos, it may feel uncomfortable owing to its big size. It does not have balls, but there is a suction cup at the base that allows you to use it hands-free. To use with a harness, attach an O-ring with a 2.5-inch diameter. We have to say it has amazing suction power and, if our experience is anything to go by, won’t slip off the surface where you place it.
This feeling dildo is made from PVC and is flexible; there is no chance it could hurt you. It’s latex- and phthalate-free, so people who are allergic to the two can safely use it. To clean it, you can wash it in soapy water since it is waterproof. The manufacturer recommends that you only use a water-based lubricant on the dildo.
Why did it make our list?
Long and wide
Hand-finished, natural feel
Flexible
Latex-free and phthalate-free
Waterproof
Suction cup/hands-free operation
What is not ideal about it?
May be uncomfortable for beginner users
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Consumer Engagement
Chosen by 5896 people in the past 30 days
9.4
Customer Feedback
Based on cross-platform reviews
8.9
Brand Reputation
Based on web analytics & content of negative reviews
More features: latex- and phthalate-free, textured shaft, suction cup, wired controller
The Rowdy Girthy Extra Quiet Suction Cup Dildo Vibrator is a monstrous pleasure giver with an overall length of 10.5 inches and an insertable length of 9 inches. It has a girth of 2 inches, and while thick, the head is tapered so it’s easy to insert. It’s wider as you move toward the base, a shape that allows you to enjoy smooth penetration and immense fullness as you push the real feel dildo deeper inside you. Enjoy the realistic mimicry of a real cock, delivered by the curved head, ridge-like veins on the shaft, and the wrinkled, firm balls.
This dildo has a suction cup that allows you to ride hands-free or attach a harness. You’ll need a 2-inch O-ring for the harness. We didn’t find the suction power powerful, and the dildo doesn’t stick to some surfaces.
It also has a vibrator that is powered by a ten-mode motor that uses 3 AAA batteries. The speeds and patterns are sufficiently powerful and stimulating, but if you’re a power thrust chaser, you may find the lower settings a little too weak for your liking. One thing we enjoyed about the vibrator is that it operates quietly, so quietly that someone in the next room won’t hear it if you use it under your duvet or if you close the door.
It’s made from latex and phthalate-free PVC and has a firm mold. Avoid exposing it to water because it’s not waterproof.
What do we love it for?
Big
Graduated shape with tapered head
Includes vibrator
Quiet
Latex- and phthalate-free
What were we disappointed with?
Suction cup doesn't stick on some surfaces
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Consumer Engagement
Chosen by 6747 people in the past 30 days
9.0
Customer Feedback
Based on cross-platform reviews
8.8
Brand Reputation
Based on web analytics & content of negative reviews
More features: latex- and phthalate-free, submersible, Vac-U-Lock base
This Doc Johnson Jeff Stryker is every grown girl and boy’s dream. Cast after a real model, this lifelike dido is thick and long, with a 2.1-inch girth and an insertable length of 7.5 inches. It’s big, but not so big that it scares beginners. The head is a soft pink hue and protrudes slightly, giving your opening a tickle as you get it in. The entire thing is curved in a banana-like shape that widens gradually from the top downward, with the middle being the thickest part, so as you take it in it fills you up nicely in all the right places. The skin folds on the testicles and the bumpy detailing on the shaft give wild sensations that will have you grabbing and scratching whatever surface is nearby. An intriguing thing about the balls is that they are soft and move a bit, which can add to the excitement as you feel them dance around your perineum. This is a firm but flexible toy, which helps give deep satisfaction.
It has a Vac-U-Lock compatible base to facilitate hands-free operation or use of a harness, and it’s compatible with all Vac-U-Lock harnesses and accessories and all F-Machines that use the Vac-U-Lock system. However, it does not come with a suction cup.
It’s made from soft, latex-free and phthalate-free R5 PVC, a material that is also waterproof, and this means you can wash it in water.
What are our favorite features?
Flexible
Curved
Latex-free and phthalate-free
Waterproof
Interchangable vac-u-lock
What could be better?
Does not come with a suction cup
Things to Consider
An enjoyable, wholesome experience with dildos comes from using dildos that fit your needs. If you pick the wrong dildo, you may never benefit from the layers of stimulation and pleasure such a toy can give you. We now show you how to choose a dildo so that you never find yourself in the above situation. We’ll list the important features to consider when buying a dildo and show you how to analyze them to get the best fit.
What makes realistic dildos so good?
Realistic dildos are shaped like real penises and are similar in size to the penis – and often times bigger. They differ from other types of dildos in that they have extra details that give them the look and feel (texture) of a real penis. Where regular dildos are smooth, realistic dildos have a veiny shaft, which may also have bumps, tiny ridges, or grooves. Like a real penis, they also have a distinctly pronounced head, and a pair of balls at the bottom. They may also have a suction cup that allows you to attach them on virtually any surface where you can ride them without using your hands to insert them.
All these features and the unique design, shape, size, and texture give an experience that is very similar to that of a real cock. They give greater stimulation and pleasure than standard dildos, and in some cases, they hit spots and reach places that a real penis doesn’t. Many people who have never had an orgasm with traditional penile penetration report getting orgasms with realistic dildos, and sometimes this happens multiple times in a row.
How to use real feeling dildos to get the most pleasure
The first thing you must do to enjoy fulfilling pleasure from your dildo is to get yourself adequately aroused. Foreplay with your partner or solo play if you’re alone gets you in the mood to be adventurous with your toys. Insert a butt plug beforehand to make anal insertion easier, and ensure you have plenty of lube to help with the same, even for vaginal insertion. Lube makes a difference between discomfort plus soreness and easy gliding plus enjoyment.
Stimulate yourself/yourselves further by using additional toys on the vagina and butt while simultaneously getting action from the dildo. It’s a great way to heighten pleasure. Do this with a butt plug, vibrator, your hands, or your partner’s hands, tongue, or penis.
Try different positions to experience different sensations. Inserting the dildo whilst in a sitting position, lying on your back, lying on your side, leaning forward, and on all fours all give unique sensations. Experiment with new positions, too, and see what you discover.
Vary your thrusts by using both shallow and deep thrusts. Shallow thrusts will stimulate your clitoris and G-spot while deep thrusts are bound to stimulate your G-spot, A-spot, and P-spot and hit your walls differently. Thrust at different speeds to vary your sensations.
Another way is that, instead of thrusting, you can rotate the dildo or rock it back and forth and from side to side.
Price question
As you may have guessed, realistic dildos cost more than standard dildos because of their bigger size and all the attention to detail they are given. A good realistic dildo will set you back by at least $50. The really good ones go for a lot more, and can cost as much as $150. But these also last a long time and are made from non-degrading material, so you’re unlikely to want to replace them once you buy them. Take the Vixen Johnny VixSkin Realistic Dildo, for example. It is a bit costly , but you will enjoy it for life. It even comes with a lifetime warranty. Such long-lasting dildos are worth every dollar spent to acquire them.
Features to consider while buying the best realistic dildo
There are several factors that determine how good a realistic dildo is. We discuss them below.
Touch the skin
Realistic dildos have raised veins that create a bumpy texture, which feels nearly as real as a penis when you touch it. This is the main differentiator between these real feel dildos and standard dildos. When you move your hand along the shaft of the dildo, it feels as though you were caressing a real cock.
Design details
Details are what make a realistic dildo, and each part of the dildo is layered with enough detailing to make a statement. Let’s start with the shaft. This part has visible veins, just like a penis. Most have a slight bend, just like an erect penis.
The head of the dildo can be curved or not, and it’s made in a protruding design that gives it prominence. Some heads have a tapering shape, so designed to make insertion easy. Others are round and noticeably bigger than the shaft. Whatever glans shape and size delights you, you’re likely to find it in a few realistic dildos.
The addition of balls on the dildo brings a new dimension of excitement to the equation. The balls massage your perineum or clitoris depending on the position you’re in, which creates new waves of pleasure. To give them an authentic look, dildo designers add wrinkles and skinfolds resembling those found on testicles. Some have a squidgy feel that creates a wonderful tingling sensation on the skin around the vulva and perineum. Others are firmer. And some, like the Doc Johnson Jeff Stryker, even move slightly while you thrust or ride the dildo, which can be a real game changer in your play time.
Dildos for anal use have a wider base to ensure that they don’t slip in and get lost inside your passage while you’re caught up in the throes of desire. If you’re not sure whether a dildo is designed for anal insertion, look at the shape. If it flares at the base, meaning it is far wider than your anal opening when stretched, it is safe to use. If it doesn’t flare, it’s probably not a good idea to use it. You may think, “What if my partner uses it on me? They’d be careful with it.” Well, that may be true, but strange things have been known to happen in the midst of a passionate ride. Your muscles could suck it in as you cum at the exact second your partner’s hands go limp from their own orgasm, and then you’d be quickly transported from a deliciously lustful encounter to a medical emergency situation. Not worth it, not when there are countless options that are better suited for anal play.
Material
Realistic dildos should be made from body safe materials like platinum silicone. Other materials commonly used to make dildos are PVC and soft plastic. All three are durable and will ensure the longevity of your toy. Another quality they share is that they do not degrade over time, which inferior quality plastic does. When this happens, the chemicals and compounds released as the material breaks down enter your body as you use the dildo, and there’s no telling what harm they could cause. It’s very important to ensure that the material out of which your dildo is made is non-porous. If it’s porous, it will absorb your body fluids and those of your partners if you’re sharing, and this can give rise to some nasty microbes because it’s impossible to clean the inside of the dildo. A porous dildo is also wont to collect all kinds of germs outside your body, too, which it’ll transfer to you, and this is quite dangerous to your health.
Insertable length
The average realistic dildo measures 5-9 inches in insertable length. This refers to the portion of the dildo that can go inside your vagina or anal passage and is measured from the head to the part where the balls are attached. If size is a big deal for you, you want to choose a dildo with an insertable length of at least 8 or 9 inches. If you’re a new user, a smaller insertable length, like 5 inches, is more suitable. Alternatively, you can just buy a bigger dildo and insert it only up to the length you’re comfortable taking in.
Girth
This refers to how wide the dildo is or its circumference. The typical range is between 1.25 and 2.5 inches, but some dildos can be as wide as 3 inches. The girth measurement may be different at the top, middle, and bottom. In some dildos, the top is the widest part, while in others, the middle is the widest part. Others have a tapered shape where they’re widest at the bottom and narrow as you move to the head.
Versatility
Many realistic dildos come with a suction cup, which allows you to stick the dildo to a surface and enjoy riding it without using your hands to keep it inside. You can attach a harness to such a dildo too. Just slip an O-ring of the appropriate diameter down the suction cup and attach your harness. It’s a great option if you enjoy pegging.
A realistic dildo can also have a vibrator attached. Such a dildo increases the intensity of your passion and opens the door for you to experience pleasure in different ways.
Flexibility
Realistic dildos are flexible, which makes them enjoyable to use. You can bend them, rotate them, or move in a rocking motion without worrying about hurting yourself or breaking the dildo. At the same time, the core of the dildo is firm to make insertion easy. If the core was flexible, you would struggle to push it through the vaginal or anal opening.
Uncut dildos give the same experience as cut dildos. However, because they have the equivalent of a foreskin, you must clean them thoroughly after each use as they can harbor bacteria and other germs in the folds of the foreskin. You want to make sure that you carefully remove any bodily fluids after use, and especially after using them anally.
If your lifelike dildo is waterproof and submersible, you can use water to clean it. Pair your water with antibacterial soap to get rid of any germs that may be lurking on the dildo. Water alone will not suffice in cleaning the dildo since it won’t remove bacteria or fungi that may be on the toy. If the dildo is not waterproof, use a sex toy cleaner. There’s a ton of them on the market. But if the manufacturer recommends a specific product, use that instead.
Practicing oral sex on realistic dildos is just as effective as having penetrative sex with the dildo. You can do both and enjoy them equally well. Most people do both. But you may enjoy one more than the other, and that is perfectly okay. Many toy users actually practice oral sex on realistic dildos as a way of improving their BJ skills, and of course, because it is enjoyable. Doing it together with your partner, at the same time, is one way to spice things up between you two.
Our Verdict
Our top choice is Shane Diesel Realistic Dildo with Balls. We like its big head, the large balls, its long, thick shaft, and the powerful vibrations designed to enhance sensation. We also like that you can use it in one of three ways: with your hands, with a harness, and we especially like the suction cup that allows for hands-free use.
Our second choice is Vixen Johnny VixSkin Realistic Dildo, which stands out for its thick, curvy shaft. We like how crevices on the foreskin and detailing on the shaft and balls caress your opening and walls as you move it in and out. Other top advantages are that it’s hypoallergenic and waterproof, so easy to clean.
Our third choice for best realistic dildo is Doc Johnson Black Thunder, a massive toy with an alluring length and girth. We like its curvy shaft, the huge bulbous head, and the realistic detail on the shaft and balls.
